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Ch 12Hope Is the Enemy2 min

Painting what's possible

You have to make them feel the future before you can ask them for the money.

Before you ask someone to close, you have to paint them a picture.

You have to make them see themselves in a different situation. You have to make them feel what it would be like to have solved this problem.

This is called future pacing and it's one of the most underrated parts of the close.

When you paint the future, you're not just describing benefits.

You're helping them imagine a version of themselves that's possible if they take action.

You're anchoring them to that vision.

Then when you ask for the close, they're not deciding whether to buy. They're deciding whether to move toward the person they just imagined.

Here's how you do it.

Go back to the gap they identified.

Remind them what the current state is.

"So where you are now is stuck. You're making thirty thousand a month. You're not growing. You're repeating the same conversations over and over. You don't feel like you're building anything."

Let that sink in.

Then paint the future state.

"Here's what happens after the program. You land a business development associate role at a company. Good company, venture backed, scaling. You're making eighty thousand a month. You're having different conversations. You're closing deals. You're learning. You're building something. You go home at night and you don't feel like you wasted the day. Your parents ask you what you do and you tell them and they're proud. That feeling changes everything about how you see yourself."

You're not rushing through this.

You're letting them sit with it.

You're painting it vividly.

Sensory details matter.

"Imagine the first time you close a deal. Imagine telling your parents. Imagine checking your bank account and seeing money you earned. Imagine walking into a room knowing you're not the least experienced person there. That confidence spreads to every part of your life."

Now they're not thinking about the program. They're thinking about the person they could become.

That's the power of painting the future.

It's not about your product. It's about their transformation.